Each day, and the living of it, has to be a conscious creation in which discipline and order are relieved with some play and pure foolishness.
May SartonRead
There is no doubt that solitude is a challenge and to maintain balance within it a precarious business. But I must not forget that, for me, being with people or even with one beloved person for any length of time without solitude is even worse. I lose my center. I feel dispersed, scattered, in pieces. I must have time alone in which to mull over my encounter, and to extract its juice, its essence, to understand what has really happened to me as a consequence of it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of solitude for personal understanding and balance.
In this quote, May Sarton reflects on the duality of solitude and companionship, suggesting that while solitude can be challenging, it is essential for personal clarity and grounding. She expresses that prolonged time with others can lead to feelings of disarray and a loss of self, stressing the need for solitary moments to process experiences and emotions deeply.
Themes
SolitudeBalanceSelf-ReflectionCompanionshipEmotions
In practice
Example use cases
In a workshop on mental health, one could use this quote to discuss the balance between social interaction and alone time.
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