Never once, during any of my bouts of depression, had I been inclined or able to pick up a telephone and ask a friend for help. It wasn't in me.
Kay Redfield JamisonRead
I decided early in graduate school that I needed to do something about my moods. It quickly came down to a choice between seeing a psychiatrist or buying a horse. Since almost everyone I knew was seeing a psychiatrist, and since I had an absolute belief that I should be able to handle my own problems, I naturally bought a horse.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects a personal choice to manage emotions independently rather than conforming to societal norms of seeking professional help.
Kay Redfield Jamison's quote encapsulates a pivotal moment in her life during graduate school, where she grapples with her emotional health. Faced with the option of therapy or pursuing a more unconventional route, she chose to buy a horse, symbolizing her desire for independence and a personal approach to mental well-being. This choice highlights a philosophical stance on handling one's own problems in a world that often pushes people towards conventional solutions.
Themes
MoodsMental HealthIndependenceChoicePhilosophy
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a mental health awareness speech to emphasize personal agency.
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