If a victory is told in detail, one can no longer distinguish it from a defeat.
Jean-Paul SartreRead
It is too early to love. We will buy the right to do so by shedding blood.
Interpretation
This quote suggests that love is a privilege that must be earned through sacrifice and struggle.
Jean-Paul Sartre implies that the ability to love is often contingent upon overcoming significant challenges and hardships. In this context, love is not merely a spontaneous feeling but something that is forged through the trials and tribulations of life, hinting at the weight of emotional investment and the sacrifices required to truly deserve and understand love.
In practice
In a discussion about the depth of love and commitment during a relationship seminar.
If a victory is told in detail, one can no longer distinguish it from a defeat.
All I want is' - and he uttered the final words through clenched teeth and with a sort of shame - 'to retain my freedom.' I should myself have thought,' said Jacques, 'that freedom consisted in frankly confronting situations into which one had deliberately entered, and accepting all one's responsibilities. But that, no doubt, is not your view.
If you are lonely when you're alone, you are in bad company.
A kiss without a moustache, they said then, is like an egg without salt; I will add to it: and it is like Good without Evil.
I wanted pure love: foolishness; to love one another is to hate a common enemy: I will thus espouse your hatred. I wanted Good: nonsense; on this earth and in these times, Good and Bad are inseparable: I accept to be evil in order to become good.
Night is falling: at dusk, you must have good eyesight to be able to tell the Good Lord from the Devil.
Any day spent with you is my favorite day. So today is my new favorite day.
Dear Valentine, I love you. Whoever you are.
True love grows by sacrifice and the more thoroughly the soul rejects natural satisfaction the stronger and more detached its tenderness becomes.
She raised her eyes to his. They had both come from misery, she thought, and survived it. They had been drawn together through violence and tragedy, and had overcome it. They walked different paths and had found a mutual route. Some things last, she thought. Some ordinary things. Like love.
You don't love someone because they're perfect, you love them in spite of the fact that they're not.
My deepest awareness of myself is that I am deeply loved by Jesus Christ and I have done nothing to earn it or deserve it.
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