You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
I think it's easy to stop smoking; it's just hard not to commit a felony after you stop.
Interpretation
Quitting smoking is simple in theory, but the underlying struggles often complicate the process.
David Foster Wallace's quote highlights the irony in the simplicity of quitting smoking versus the complex emotional and behavioral challenges that follow. It emphasizes that while the act of stopping smoking may seem straightforward, it is often accompanied by deeper issues, making the entire process more difficult than it first appears.
In practice
This quote can be used in a support group for individuals trying to quit smoking.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
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Under fun's new administration, writing fiction becomes a way to go deep inside yourself and illuminate precisely the stuff you don't want to see or let anyone else see, and this stuff usually turns out (paradoxically) to be precisely the stuff all writers and readers share and respond to, feel.
Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
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If you get the dirty end of the stick, sharpen it and turn it into a useful tool.
A great man does not seek applause or place; he seeks for truth; he seeks the road to happiness, and what he ascertains, he gives to others.
Does anybody think these people were just sitting around drinking tea?
I would run into the corner store, the bodega, and just grab a paper bag or buy juice - anything just to get a paper bag. And I'd write the words on the paper bag and stuff these ideas in my pocket until I got back. Then I would transfer them into the notebook.
Rather than continuing to seek the truth, simply let go of your views.
The ear plays the role of the guide in the museum in the concert I'm taking now. We don't have an oral guide, we have to provide it ourselves. One reason why active listening is absolutely essential.
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