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It is easy to say that you can adopt the whole human race as your children, but it is not the same as living in a home with a child and shaping all you do to help him learn to be happy and whole and good. Don't live your life without ever holding a child in your arms, on your lap, in your home, and feeling a child's arms around you and hearing his voice in your ear and seeing his smile, given to you because you put it into your heart.
Orson Scott Card
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What this quote means

The quote emphasizes the importance of personal, direct engagement with a child over abstract feelings of care for humanity.

Orson Scott Card's quote illustrates the profound impact of nurturing a child in a personal and intimate setting. It contrasts the simplicity of claiming love and responsibility for all humanity with the intricate, rewarding experience of actively participating in a child's life. Through tangible experiences, such as holding a child and witnessing their development, we cultivate genuine connections that foster happiness and goodness, thus enriching both their lives and our own.

Themes

ChildrenNurturingFamilyHappinessLove

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Example use cases

In a parenting workshop, I quoted Orson Scott Card to highlight the importance of hands-on parenting.

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