Since God often sends us inspirations by means of His angels, we should frequently return our aspirations to him by means of the same messengers.
Saint Francis De SalesRead
The elephant, not only the largest but the most intelligent of animals, provides us with an excellent example. It is faithful and tenderly loving to the female of its choice, mating only every third year and then for no more than five days, and so secretly as never to be seen, until, on the sixth day, it appears and goes at once to wash its whole body in the river, unwilling to return to the herd until thus purified. Such good and modest habits are an example to husband and wife.
Interpretation
The quote highlights the elephant's loving and respectful behavior towards its mate, suggesting it serves as a model for human relationships.
Saint Francis De Sales uses the example of elephants to illustrate the virtues of loyalty, modesty, and care in relationships. Elephants are depicted as faithful companions, choosing their partners carefully and maintaining a profound sense of respect and purity. This analogy encourages humans to adopt similar values in their marital lives, emphasizing the importance of commitment and tenderness between partners.
In practice
During a wedding ceremony to highlight the importance of loyalty and purity in marriage.
Since God often sends us inspirations by means of His angels, we should frequently return our aspirations to him by means of the same messengers.
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