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What else? She is so beautiful. You don’t get tired of looking at her. You never worry if she is smarter than you: You know she is. She is funny without ever being mean. I love her. I am so lucky to love her, Van Houten. You don’t get to choose if you get hurt in this world, old man, but you do have some say in who hurts you. I like my choices. I hope she likes hers.
John Green
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote expresses deep admiration for a loved one and acknowledges the pain and choices that come with love.

In this quote, the speaker reflects on the beauty and intelligence of their beloved, emphasizing the joy and appreciation they feel. It highlights the balance of love with the inevitability of hurt in the world, suggesting that while we cannot control all aspects of our experience, we do have agency in the relationships we choose. The sentiment is one of gratitude for the love shared and recognition of the bittersweet nature of emotional connections.

Themes

LoveBeautyChoicesAdmirationPain

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be shared during a wedding speech to express love and admiration for the couple.

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