Forgiving and being forgiven are two names for the same thing. The important thing is that a discord has been resolved.
C. S. LewisRead
With emotional abuse, the insults, insinuations, criticism, and accusations slowly eat away at the victim’s self-esteem until he or she is incapable of judging a situation realistically. He or she may begin to believe that there is something wrong with them or even fear they are losing their mind. They have become so beaten down emotionally that they blame themselves for the abuse.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Emotional abuse erodes a person's self-worth and leads them to doubt their own reality.
Beverly Engel highlights the insidious nature of emotional abuse, where constant negative remarks and manipulative behavior can severely damage a victim's self-esteem. Over time, the victim may internalize this abuse, leading to a distorted self-image and a belief that they are at fault for the situation, even questioning their own mental stability. This quote underscores the need for awareness and support for those affected by such invisible wounds.
Themes
Emotional AbuseSelf-EsteemManipulationMental HealthVictimCriticism
In practice
Example use cases
In a workshop discussing mental health, this quote could exemplify the hidden effects of emotional abuse.
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