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We have in England a curious belief in first-rate people, meaning all the people we do not know; and this consoles us for the undeniable second-rateness of the people we do know.
George Bernard Shaw
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote highlights the tendency to idealize unfamiliar people while undervaluing those we know personally.

George Bernard Shaw's quote reflects a common human behavior where we tend to hold a positive, often unrealistic perception of those we don’t know, while being critical or dismissive of the qualities of those in our immediate circle. This belief serves as a consolation, allowing us to overlook the shortcomings of familiar individuals by projecting an idealized image onto strangers, thereby emphasizing our inherent biases in perception and judgment.

Themes

PerceptionFamiliarityIdealizationHuman BehaviorJudgment

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about social perceptions, one might say, 'As George Bernard Shaw noted, we often idealize strangers.'

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