There's an old saying: 'No piece of writing is ever finished, it's just abandoned.' But my own rule is: No piece of work is done until you want to kill everyone involved in the publishing process, especially yourself.
Even if you tell yourself "Today I'm going to drink coffee the wrong way ... from a dirty boot." Even that would be right, because you chose to drink coffee from that boot. Because you can do nothing wrong. You are always right. Even when you say, "I'm such an idiot, I'm so wrong..." you're right. You're right about being wrong. You're right even when you're an idiot. No matter how stupid your idea, you're doomed to be right because it's yours.
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What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the idea that personal choices, even when perceived as wrong, are valid and affirm one's individuality.
Chuck Palahniuk's quote explores the concept of personal agency and the subjective nature of right and wrong. It suggests that every decision made by an individual, regardless of its social acceptability or inherent logic, forms a part of their identity and experience. The notion of being 'always right' when you own your decisions highlights the importance of embracing one's unique perspective, even if it leads to misguided actions. Ultimately, it champions the idea of self-acceptance and the understanding that mistakes are simply expressions of one's right to choose.
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Example use cases
During a creative workshop, to encourage participants to take risks with their ideas.
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