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Fairness is a concept that holds only in limited situations. Yet we want the concept to extend to everything, in and out of phase. From snails to hardware stores to married life. Maybe no one finds it, or even misses it, but fairness is like love. What is given has nothing to do with what we seek.
Haruki Murakami
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Fairness is not an absolute concept and varies across different situations, similar to love.

In this quote, Haruki Murakami reflects on the elusive nature of fairness, suggesting that while we desire it universally, it applies only in limited contexts. He parallels fairness with love, implying that what we give and receive in life often does not align with our expectations or desires, underscoring the complexity of human relationships and societal norms.

Themes

FairnessLoveRelationshipsLifeExpectations

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Example use cases

During discussions on social justice, this quote can highlight the nuanced understanding of fairness.

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