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Family life itself, that safest, most traditional, most approved of female choices, is not a sanctuary: It is, perpetually, a dangerous place.
Margaret Drabble
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Family life is often perceived as safe and traditional, but it can also be perilous and challenging.

In this quote, Margaret Drabble challenges the conventional belief that family life is a secure and nurturing environment exclusive to women. Instead, she asserts that it can be fraught with difficulties and dangers, implying that the complexities and struggles inherent in family life are often overlooked in societal discussions about women's roles and choices.

Themes

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In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about modern family dynamics, this quote highlights the complexities that often go unnoticed.

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