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My family moved to Saudi Arabia from Glasgow when I was 15. Being a 15-year-old girl anywhere is difficult - all those hormones and everything - but being a 15-year-old girl in Saudi Arabia... it was like someone had turned the light off in my head. I could not get a grasp on why women were treated like this.
Mona Eltahawy
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Adolescence is challenging, and moving to a new culture can amplify those struggles, especially regarding gender roles.

In this quote, Mona Eltahawy reflects on her difficult transition into adolescence while navigating a new cultural landscape in Saudi Arabia. The experience emphasizes the struggles of young women in restrictive societies, highlighting the confusion and frustration stemming from the contrasting expectations placed on them compared to their peers in more liberal environments.

Themes

FamilyCultureAdolescenceGenderIdentity

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about cultural differences in gender roles during a seminar on women's rights.

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I can write about my culture and religion because I am a product of both. Even when I'm accused of giving ammunition to the Islamophobic right, in the struggle between 'community' and 'women,' I always choose the women.
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I believe at the heart of any revolution for social justice and human dignity are consent and agency, the unequivocal belief that I own my body - not the state, not the church/mosque/temple, not the street and not the family.
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I will never ally with Islamophobes and racists. But in the choice between 'community' and Muslim women, I will always choose my sisters.
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