You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
I like the fans’ sound at night. Do you? It’s like somebody big far away goes like: it’sOKit’sOKit’sOKit’sOK, over and over. From very far away.
Interpretation
The sound of fans at night brings a sense of reassurance and calm, akin to a distant affirmation.
In this quote, David Foster Wallace reflects on the soothing background noise created by fans during the night. He draws a parallel between this sound and a comforting presence that reassures us, suggesting that even when we feel alone, there are distant affirmations that can bring us peace and tranquility.
In practice
In a speech about finding tranquility in everyday life, one might reference this quote to illustrate the comfort of familiar sounds.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
Under fun's new administration, writing fiction becomes a way to go deep inside yourself and illuminate precisely the stuff you don't want to see or let anyone else see, and this stuff usually turns out (paradoxically) to be precisely the stuff all writers and readers share and respond to, feel.
Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
Bliss - a-second-by-second joy and gratitude at the gift of being alive, conscious - lies on the other side of crushing, crushing boredom. Pay close attention to the most tedious thing you can find (Tax Returns, Televised Golf) and, in waves, a boredom like you’ve never known will wash over you and just about kill you. Ride these out, and it’s like stepping from black and white into color. Like water after days in the desert. Instant bliss in every atom.
The possibilities are numerous once we decide to act and not react.
It's possible to fight intolerance, stupidity and fanaticism when they come separately. When you get all three together it's probably wiser to get out, if only to preserve your sanity.
Being young and trying to catch a glimpse of the depths, of the true self, of the soul, or whatever human beings have called it over the centuries, we often find ourselves surrounded by bossy, hectoring voices trying to short-circuit our personal experience by super-imposing their own disappointments. Much of this bossiness masquerades as an education.
I’m thirty,” I said. “I’m five years too old to lie to myself and call it honor
Frosting Freedom Is just frosting On somebody else's Cake-- And so must be Till we Learn how to Bake.
Meditation is a sort of prayer and prayer is meditation. The highest meditation is to think of nothing. If you can remain one moment without thought, great power will come.
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