All the knowledge I possess everyone else can acquire, but my heart is all my own.
Johann Wolfgang Von GoetheRead
We cannot fashion our children after our desires, we must have them and love them as God has given them to us.
Interpretation
Children should be accepted and loved for who they are, not shaped by parental desires.
This quote emphasizes the importance of unconditional love and acceptance in parenting. It suggests that children should not be molded into specific ideals or aspirations of their parents but should instead be embraced as individuals, with their own unique qualities and identities, as intended by God.
In practice
In a parenting workshop discussing the importance of individuality in children.
All the knowledge I possess everyone else can acquire, but my heart is all my own.
Destiny grants us our wishes, but in its own way, in order to give us something beyond our wishes.
There is a courtesy of the heart; it is allied to love. From its springs the purest courtesy in the outward behavior.
I am amazed to see how deliberately I have entangled myself step by step. To have seen my position so clearly, and yet to have acted so like a child!
Seldom in the business and transactions of ordinary life, do we find the sympathy we want.
Know thyself? If I knew myself I would run away.
One of the hard things coming from an immigrant family - or any family that doesn't believe in the arts - is that you have to disappoint your parents. That's hard for people to do if you're a good kid.
My mother's rules had to do with feminine deportment, so I never played hard enough to break a toy or muddy my dress. My father's rules had to do with never shaming the family by even a hint of scandal, and not providing business rivals with an opportunity to kidnap me or throw acid in my face.
All of these things we do without children, and suddenly we don't do them anymore, and it comes home to us in a real way, that it's very different to have the responsibility of a child.
I would look at a dog and when our eyes met, I realized that the dog and all creatures are my family. They're like you and me.
The hardest thing that I had to do every day as a working single parent was child care, to have to leave my child with people that I did not know and hope everything was OK, that was the most painful part of every day.
The truth is that all great men have had great mothers. Great women have had, as a rule, great fathers.
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