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There is my father whispering in my ear, Be still still still. And yet you change everything. What was the marsh like, waiting for the storm before you came and kneeled in the water? It was nothing. Watch after you leave the water, now cold and regretful, miles from home, certain of the belt on your backside, the cold shoulder, the extra chores; watch. Watch the water heal itself of your presence--not to repair injury but to offer itself again should you care to risk another strapping [...].
Paul Harding
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote reflects on the themes of change, regret, and the cyclical nature of existence.

In this quote, Paul Harding explores the relationship between the past and the present, capturing the tension between parental guidance and personal growth. The imagery of water healing after a presence implies that while actions may leave a mark, nature has a way of rejuvenating itself, much like human emotions and relationships that endure through trials and learn to embrace change.

Themes

ChangeRegretReflectionNatureGrowth

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about embracing personal growth, one might reference this quote to highlight the importance of learning from the past.

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