If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
What is a fear of living? It's being preeminently afraid of dying. It is not doing what you came here to do, out of timidity and spinelessness. The antidote is to take full responsibility for yourself - for the time you take up and the space you occupy. If you don't know what you're here to do, then just do some good.
Interpretation
Fear of living stems from a fear of dying, leading to inaction; taking responsibility can lead to fulfillment.
Maya Angelou suggests that the fear of truly living one's life often comes from a deep-seated fear of death. This timidity and reluctance to embrace life can prevent individuals from fulfilling their purpose. She emphasizes that taking personal responsibility for our actions and choices can help us overcome this fear. If we are uncertain about our purpose, engaging in acts of goodness can serve as a way to find meaning and direction.
In practice
In a motivational speech to inspire students to take risks and embrace their potential.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
I don’t deny that there can be an element of escapism in mountaineering, but this should never overshadow its real essence, which is not escape but victory over your own human frailty.
Bravery shows up in everyday life when people have the courage to live their truth, their vision and their dreams.
After my accident, I never worried about how I looked.
It's one thing to be groped and harassed by passers-by, but when the state gropes you, it gives a green light that you are fair game.
One day I realized I was living in a country where I was afraid to be black. It was only a country for white people. Not black. So I left. I had been suffocating in the United States... A lot of us left, not because we wanted to leave, but because we couldn't stand it anymore... I felt liberated in Paris.
Wherever there was injustice, war, discrimination against women, gays and the disadvantaged, I did my best to show up and exert moral persuasion.
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