Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Robert Louis StevensonRead
There is a fellowship more quiet even than solitude, and which, rightly understood, is solitude made perfect.
Interpretation
True fellowship can provide deeper connection and understanding than solitude itself.
This quote by Robert Louis Stevenson suggests that there exists a form of companionship that transcends the common experience of being alone. It implies that when one achieves true fellowship, they encounter a state of being that is so profound that it resembles the ideal of solitude β a perfect balance of connection and introspection.
In practice
In a speech about the importance of relationships, this quote can highlight the value of deep connections.
Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Like a bird singing in the rain, let grateful memories survive in time of sorrow.
That man is a success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much.
His past was fairly blameless; few men could read the rolls of their life with less apprehension; yet he was humbled to the dust by the many ill things he had done, and raised up again into sober and fearful gratitude by the many he had come so near to doing, yet avoided.
The habit of being happy enables one to be freed, or largely freed, from the domination of outward conditions.
It is the history of our kindnesses that alone make this world tolerable. If it were not for that, for the effect of kind words, kind looks, kind letters . . . I should be inclined to think our life a practical jest in the worst possible spirit.
As a matter of self-preservation, a man needs good friends or ardent enemies, for the former instruct him and the latter take him to task.
We must reach out our hand in friendship and dignity both to those who would befriend us and those who would be our enemy.
I do then with my friends as I do with my books. I would have them where I can find them, but I seldom use them.
Is that the basis of friendship? Is it as reactive as that? Do we respond only to people who seem to find us interesting?... Do we all buzz or ring or light up when people press our vanity buttons, and only then? Can I think of anyone in my whole life whom I have liked without his first showing signs of liking me?
No degree of knowledge attainable by man is able to set him above the want of hourly assistance, or to extinguish the desire of fond endearments and tender officiousness; and, therefore, no one should think it unnecessary to learn those arts by which friendship may be gained.
Success is meaningless if you can't sleep at night because of harsh things said, petty secrets sharpened against hard and stony regret, just waiting to be plunged into the soft underbelly of a 'friendship.'
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