My family was mostly unemployed working class.
Noam ChomskyRead
The first duty to children is to make them happy. If you have not made them so, you have wronged them. No other good they may get can make up for that.
Interpretation
The primary responsibility of parents is to ensure their children's happiness, above all else.
This quote by Charles Buxton emphasizes the fundamental role parents play in their children's lives. It suggests that the essence of good parenting lies in fostering happiness in children, and failing to do so is a deep disservice. The notion is that no other achievements or advantages provided to children can compensate for a lack of joy and contentment in their upbringing.
In practice
In a parenting seminar discussing the importance of emotional well-being.
My family was mostly unemployed working class.
They've lived here now for more than half of their lives, and they raised a family here and now have grandchildren here... It has become their home, but at the same time, for my parents, I don't think either of them will ever consciously think, 'I am an American.'
It is impossible to overestimate the influence of parents who understand the hearts of their children. Research shows that during the most important transitions of life—including those periods when youth are most likely to drift away from the Church—the greatest influence does not come from an interview with the bishop or some other leader but from the regular, warm, friendly, caring interaction with parents.
Although my family attended the same church as everyone in our town, our religion was not the same. I could stand with my family or with the gentiles... but there was no foothold in between.
I was raised by strong women, and that DNA is in my daughter and wife.
In Afghan society, parents play a central role in the lives of their children; the parent-child relationship is fundamental to who you are and what you become and how you perceive yourself, and it is laden with contradictions, with tension, with anger, with love, with loathing, with angst.
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