Secrecy involves a tension which, at the moment of revelation, finds its release.
Georg SimmelRead
The first internal relation that is essential to a secret society is the reciprocal confidence of its members.
Interpretation
Trust and mutual confidence are fundamental for the existence of a secret society.
This quote by Georg Simmel emphasizes that the foundation of any secretive group relies heavily on the mutual trust and confidence shared among its members. Without such a bond, the secrecy and cohesion vital to the group’s purpose would be undermined, and its function as a united entity would be compromised.
In practice
This quote can be used in a discussion about the importance of trust in teams during a leadership workshop.
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