Helping, fixing, and serving represent three different ways of seeing life. When you help, you see life as weak. when you fix, you see life as broken. When you serve, you see life as whole. Fixing and helping may be the work of the ego, and service the work of the soul.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes different perspectives on life, distinguishing between helping and fixing as ego-driven actions, while serving reflects a more holistic and soulful outlook.
Rachel Naomi Remen's quote poignantly illustrates how our approach to assisting others can be reflective of deeper beliefs about life itself. When we help someone, we might perceive them and their circumstances as fragile, while fixing suggests we view them as inherently flawed. In contrast, serving indicates a recognition of the wholeness of life and the interconnectedness of all beings, suggesting that true service stems from a place of compassion and understanding rather than from an egoistic desire to elevate ourselves.
In practice
This quote can be used in a motivational speech to inspire volunteers at a charity event.
In this culture the soul and the heart too often go homeless. Listening creates a holy silence. When you listen generously to people, they can hear the truth in themselves, often for the first time. And in the silence of listening, you can know yourself in everyone. Eventually you may be able to hear, in everyone and beyond everyone, the unseen singing softly to itself and to you.
At the deepest level, the creative process and the healing process arise from a single source. When you are an artist, you are a healer; a wordless trust of the same mystery is the foundation of your work and its integrity.
The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.
Grieving allows us to heal, to remember with love rather than pain. It is a sorting process. One by one you let go of the things that are gone and you mourn for them. One by one you take hold of the things that have become a part of who you are and build again.
Life is known only by those who have found a way to be comfortable with change and the unknown. Given the nature of life, there may be no security, but only adventure.
How strange to think that great pain may be impermanent. Something in us all seems to want to carve it in granite, as if only this would do full honor to its terrible significance. But even pain is blessed with impermanence... p 259
Rules are mostly made to be broken and are too often for the lazy to hide behind.
If we seek something, that same thing is seeking us.
Cities have sexes: London is a man, Paris a woman, and New York a well-adjusted transsexual.
We live in an age in which there is no heroic death.
Female heterosexuality is not a biological drive or an individual women's erotic attraction or attachment to another human animal which happens to be male. Female heterosexuality is a set of social institutions and practices... Those definitions... are about the oppression and exploitation of women by men.
Evil is not to be traced back to the individual but to the collective behavior of humanity.
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