The greedy search for money or success will almost always lead men into unhappiness. Why? Because that kind of life makes them depend upon things outside themselves.
Andre MauroisRead
We can talk frankly about our defects only to those who recognise our qualities.
Interpretation
True communication about our flaws can only occur in an environment where our strengths are acknowledged.
This quote emphasizes the importance of mutual recognition in relationships. It suggests that people feel more comfortable discussing their shortcomings when they know that the listener appreciates their positive attributes, creating a safe space for honesty and vulnerability. This dynamic fosters deeper connections and understanding between individuals.
In practice
In a team-building workshop, to address areas for improvement among members.
The greedy search for money or success will almost always lead men into unhappiness. Why? Because that kind of life makes them depend upon things outside themselves.
It is better to teach a few things perfectly than many things indifferently...
Lost Illusion is the undisclosed title of every novel.
Men fear silence as they fear solitude, because both give them a glimpse of the terror of life's nothingness.
If you create an act, you create a habit. If you create a habit, you create a character. If you create a character, you create a destiny.
A man cannot free himself from the past more easily than he can from his own body.
...but before I can live with other folks I've got to live with myself.
People routinely assume that pornography is such a difficult and divisive issue because it's about sex. In fact, this culture struggles unsuccessfully with pornography because it is about men's cruelty to women, and the pleasure men sometimes take in that cruelty. And that is much more difficult for people-- men and women-- to face.
People are so helpful. People will stop what they're doing to show you something, to walk with you through a section of the town, or explain how a suspension bridge really works.
Marriage, to women as to men, must be a luxury, not a necessity; an incident of life, not all of it.
I don't think there should be anything that women are embarrassed to talk about in the 21st century, because for the last 100,000 years, men have said everything that's on their minds and described everything they have done.
Typically, we get annoyed when our spouses complain. We get defensive. But, really, when your spouse complains, he or she is giving you wonderful information about what would make him or her feel loved.
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