Belief like any other moving body follows the path of least resistance.
Samuel ButlerRead
A friend who cannot at a pinch remember a thing or two that never happened is as bad as one who does not know how to forget.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True friends should have the ability to forgive and forget, as well as appreciate the good memories.
Samuel Butler emphasizes the importance of having a forgiving and flexible memory in friendships. A friend who cannot overlook past grievances or who clings too tightly to negative memories is as detrimental to a relationship as one who fails to recall the positive moments shared. Friendship thrives on both the appreciation of the past and the ability to move forward without unnecessary burdens.
Themes
FriendshipForgivenessMemoryRelationshipsUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
During a toast at a wedding, you might mention how true friends embrace both the good and the bad, citing Butler's quote.
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