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If your friend wishes to read your 'Plutarch's Lives,' 'Shakespeare,' or 'The Federalist Papers,' tell him gently but firmly, to buy a copy. You will lend him your car or your coat - but your books are as much a part of you as your head or your heart.
Mortimer Adler
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Books are a personal part of who we are, and sharing them should be done with care.

In this quote, Mortimer Adler emphasizes the importance of books as a reflection of our identity and intellect. Lending them can feel like giving a piece of ourselves away, which is why he advocates for encouraging friends to invest in their own copies rather than borrowing ours. This highlights the value we place on knowledge and personal growth through literature.

Themes

BooksIdentityLendingKnowledgeFriendship

In practice

Example use cases

Sharing this quote during a book club discussion about the value of personal libraries.

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