The friendship which is to be practised or expected by common mortals, must take its rise from mutual pleasure, and must end when the power ceases of delighting each other.
Interpretation
True friendship is based on mutual enjoyment and can fade when that pleasure is gone.
Samuel Johnson's quote reflects the idea that friendships among ordinary people often stem from shared enjoyment and mutual interests. When the joy derived from the relationship diminishes, so too can the bond, highlighting the transient nature of many friendships that rely on the capacity to delight and support one another.
In practice
During a speech about the importance of relationships, one might reference this quote to emphasize the need for shared joy in friendships.
To be of no church is dangerous. Religion, of which the rewards are distant, and which is animated only by faith and hope, will glide by degrees out of the mind unless it be invigorated and reimpressed by external ordinances, by stated calls to worship, and the salutary influence of example.
He that reads and grows no wiser seldom suspects his own deficiency, but complains of hard words and obscure sentences, and asks why books are written which cannot be understood.
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And I'm up while the dawn is breaking, even though my heart is aching. I should be drinking a toast to absent friends instead of these comedians.
Strangers he gulls, but friends make fun of him.
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I never could get on with representative individuals but people who existed on their own account and with whom it might therefore be possible to be friends.
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