Justice and power must be brought together, so that whatever is just may be powerful, and whatever is powerful may be just.
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Few friendships would survive if each one knew what his friend says of him behind his back.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True friendship requires trust and understanding, as knowing unflattering opinions can damage relationships.
Blaise Pascal's quote highlights the fragility of friendships, suggesting that most relationships wouldn't withstand the revelation of unspoken thoughts. It underscores the importance of trust and the potential harm that ignorance can protect us from, indicating that sometimes it is better not to know criticism that might undermine our bonds with others.
Themes
FriendshipTrustCriticismRelationshipHonesty
In practice
Example use cases
During a discussion about friendship's complexities, one could use this quote to showcase the need for discretion.
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