How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
Stephen CoveyRead
Frustration is a function of our expectations, and our expectations are often a reflection of the social mirror rather than our own values and priorities.
Interpretation
Frustration stems from our unmet expectations, which are often shaped by societal norms rather than personal values.
This quote by Stephen Covey highlights the idea that the frustration we experience is closely tied to our expectations, which are heavily influenced by how we perceive societyβs standards and comparisons rather than our inner values and priorities. It encourages individuals to reflect on their own beliefs and values to cultivate a more authentic approach to life, rather than relying on external societal expectations that may lead to dissatisfaction.
In practice
During a motivational speech about self-awareness and personal growth.
How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
If you want to have a more pleasant, cooperative teenager, be a more understanding, empathic, consistent, loving parent. If you want to have more freedom, more latitude in your job, be a more responsible, a more helpful, a more contributing employee.
Listen with your eyes for feelings.
If we live out of our memory, we're tied to the past and to that which is finite. When we live out of our imagination, _x000D_ we're tied to that which is infinite.
Synergy is the highest activity of life; it creates new untapped alternatives; it values and exploits the mental, emotional, and psychological differences between people.
Keep in mind that you are always saying "no" to something. If it isn't to the apparent and urgent things in your life, it is probably to the most fundamental, highly important things.
If you want to get each individual's honest opinion, you don't want that opinion to be influenced by others who are present, much less allow a group to coordinate what they are going to say.
If somebody takes the time, a: to read a book that I have written, and then to b: care about it enough to write me and ask questions, surely I owe them a response.
A perverse temper and fretful disposition will make any state of life whatsoever unhappy.
Be kind and honest, and harmful poisons will turn sweet inside you.
Think of your career as your ministry. Make your work an expression of love, in service to mankind. Within the worldly illusion, we all have different jobs. Some of us are artists, some of us are business people, some of us are scientists. But in the real world that lies beyond all this, we all have the same job: to minister to human hearts.
I have known it for a long time but I have only just experienced it. Now I know it not only with my intellect, but with my eyes, with my heart, with my stomach.
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