Here's my Golden Rule for a tarnished age: Be fair with others, but keep after them until they're fair with you.
Alan AldaRead
Listen- all that she was then, all that she is now, those gestures, everything I remember but won't or can't articulate anymore, the perfect words that are somehow made imperfect when used to describe her and all that should remain unsaid about her- it is all unsupported by reason. I know that. But that enigmatic calm that attaches itself to people in the presence of reason- it's something from which I haven't been able to take comfort, not reliably, not since her.
Interpretation
This quote reflects on the profound and often unexplainable feelings one has for someone special.
Elliot Perlman expresses the complexity of emotions associated with a significant person in his life, highlighting how words often fail to capture the essence of those feelings. Despite knowing that reason cannot fully justify or explain these emotions, he acknowledges the comfort that comes from the presence of someone meaningful, which he struggles to find after their absence.
In practice
In a speech about the power of love and loss.
Here's my Golden Rule for a tarnished age: Be fair with others, but keep after them until they're fair with you.
...Grandpa's mind had left us, gone wild and wary. When I walked with him I could feel how strange it was. His thoughts swam between us, hidden under rocks, disappearing in weeds, and I was fishing for them, dangling my own words like baits and lures.
I think that a lot of people don't understand how much discrimination transgender people actually face. They think that we're just kind of saying it to put it out there and get sympathy, but that's not true at all.
There have been articles saying that all women need to read my book. I ask, why not all men? In fact, that would be even more valuable because we women want to sit down with men and tell them - this is how we feel, this is what we go through.
Women want love to be a novel, men a short story.
In the course of a marriage, one accommodates the other.
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