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a good marriage is that in which each appoints the other guardian of his solitude
Rainer Maria Rilke
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Interpretation

What this quote means

A successful marriage involves both partners respecting each other's need for personal space and individuality.

Rainer Maria Rilke emphasizes that a good marriage is not just about companionship but also about recognizing and safeguarding each partner's individuality and solitude. Each partner should act as a guardian of the other's personal space, allowing for growth and self-discovery while maintaining a strong bond of love and support.

Themes

MarriageSolitudeRelationshipsLoveIndividuality

In practice

Example use cases

During a wedding speech to emphasize the importance of personal space in a loving relationship.

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