Unbounded courage and compassion join'd, Tempering each other in the victor's mind, Alternately proclaim him good and great, And make the hero and the man complete.
Joseph AddisonRead
Good nature is more agreeable in conversation than wit and gives a certain air to the countenance which is more amiable than beauty.
Interpretation
Kindness in conversation is more charming than cleverness, and it enhances one's attractiveness more than physical beauty.
This quote highlights the importance of good nature and kindness in social interactions, suggesting that the qualities of amiability and warmth in conversation are more appealing than just having wit or beauty. It implies that true charm comes not from clever remarks or physical appearance but from a pleasant demeanor and a friendly attitude.
In practice
During a toast at a wedding, one could mention how good nature in relationships enhances connection.
Unbounded courage and compassion join'd, Tempering each other in the victor's mind, Alternately proclaim him good and great, And make the hero and the man complete.
Ridicule is generally made use of to laugh men out of virtue and good sense, by attacking everything praiseworthy in human life.
Admiration is a very short lived passion that immediately decays upon growing familiar with its object, unless it still be fed with fresh discoveries, and kept alive by a new perpetual succession of miracles rising up to its view.
It is impossible for us, who live in the latter ages of the world, to make observations in criticism, morality, or in any art or science, which have not been touched upon by others. We have little else left us but to represent the common sense of mankind in more strong, more beautiful, or more uncommon lights.
An ostentatious man will rather relate a blunder or an absurdity he has committed, than be debarred from talking of his own dear person.
There is no greater sign of a general decay of virtue in a nation, than a want of zeal in its inhabitants for the good of their country.
Nothing is more dangerous than a friend without discretion; even a prudent enemy is preferable.
As hard as it is and as tired as I am, I force myself to get dinner at least once a week with my girlfriends, or have a sleepover. Otherwise my life is just work.
They might not need me; but they might. I'll let my head be just in sight; a smile as small as mine might be precisely their necessity.
You have been my friend. That in itself is a tremendous thing. I wove my webs for you because I liked you. After all, what's a life, anyway? We're born, we live a little while, we die. A spider's life can't help being something of a mess, with all this trapping and eating flies. By helping you, perhaps I was trying to lift up my life a trifle. Heaven knows anyone's life can stand a little of that.
Of all the means to insure happiness throughout the whole life, by far the most important is the acquisition of friends.
My best Acquaintances are those With Whom I spoke no Word
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