I love you. I love you, but I’m turning to my verses and my heart is closing like a fist.
Frank O'HaraRead
But it is good to be several floors up in the dead of night wondering whether you are any good or not and the only decision you can make is that you did it.
Interpretation
Self-reflection and contemplation can be valuable, especially in moments of doubt.
In this quote by Frank O'Hara, the act of questioning one's own worth and ability during moments of introspection, particularly in solitude, is highlighted. It suggests that the journey of self-exploration and the courage to engage with one's thoughts and feelings, despite uncertainty, is itself a meaningful accomplishment, emphasizing the importance of the process over the outcome.
In practice
A speaker at a mental health seminar reflecting on the importance of self-awareness.
I love you. I love you, but I’m turning to my verses and my heart is closing like a fist.
I don't ... like rhythm, assonance, all that stuff. You just go on your nerve. If someone's chasing you down the street with a knife you just run, you don't turn around and shout, 'Give it up! I was a track star for Mineola Prep.'
I wouldn’t want to be faster or greener than now if you were with me O you were the best of all my days!
My heart is in my/ pocket. It is poems by Pierre Reverdy.
I don't believe in god, so I don't have to make elaborately sounded structures. ... Pain always produces logic, which is very bad for you. ... As for measure and other technical apparatus, that's just common sense: if you're going to buy a pair of pants you want them to be tight enough so everyone will want to go to bed with you. There's nothing metaphysical about it.
I can't even enjoy a blade of grass unless I know there's a subway handy, or a record store or some other sign that people do not totally regret life. It's more important to confirm the least sincere. The clouds get enough attention as it is.
The older I get, the less I obsess about material stuff. In fact, stuff has become the enemy. There always seems to be more of it than I have storage in my house!
Superhuman power is not strong enough.
Learn to see - accustoming the eye to calm, to patience, to letting-things-come-to-it; learning to defer judgment, to encircle and encompass the question on all sides.
In rare moments of deep play, we can lay aside our sense of self, shed time's continuum, ignore pain, and sit quietly in the absolute present, watching the world's ordinary miracles. No mind or heart hobbles. No analyzing or explaining. No questing for logic. No promises. No goals. No relationships. No worry. One is completely open to whatever drama may unfold.
I am fundamentally an optimist. Whether that comes from nature or nurture, I cannot say. Part of being optimistic is keeping one's head pointed toward the sun, one's feet moving forward. There were many dark moments when my faith in humanity was sorely tested, but I would not and could not give myself up to despair. That way lays defeat and death.
Inner silence promotes clarity of mind; It makes us value the inner world; It trains us to go inside to the source of peace and inspiration when we are faced with problems and challenges.
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