To confess your sins to God is not to tell [God] anything [God] doesn't already know. Until you confess them, however, they are the abyss between you. When you confess them, they become the bridge.
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Being a good steward of your pain. . . . It involves being alive to your life. It involves taking the risk of being open, of reaching out, of keeping in touch with the pain as well as the joy of what happens because at no time more than at a painful time do we live out of the depths of who we are instead of out of the shallows.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Embracing and acknowledging our pain allows us to experience life more fully and deeply.
This quote emphasizes the importance of being attuned to our emotions, particularly during painful times. It suggests that by accepting and understanding our pain, we can access a deeper understanding of ourselves and enrich our experiences in life, moving beyond superficial living to engage with our true selves.
Themes
PainLifeDepthEmotionAuthenticity
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote in a therapy session to discuss the role of pain in personal growth.
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