The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right.
Henry Ward BeecherRead
Greatness lies not in being strong, but in the right use of strength.
Interpretation
True greatness is about how we utilize our strengths rather than just having them.
This quote emphasizes that possessing strength alone is not what makes one great; rather, it is the ability to use that strength wisely and effectively that defines true greatness. It suggests that strength should be directed towards noble and meaningful pursuits rather than being misused or wasted.
In practice
To inspire students in a leadership seminar by illustrating the importance of wise decision-making.
The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right.
A man who cannot get angry is like a stream that cannot overflow, that is always turbid. Sometimes indignation is as good as a thunderstorm in summer, clearing and cooling the air.
No one can deal with the hearts of men unless he has the sympathy which is given by love.
We are always on the anvil; by trials God is shaping us for higher things.
No man can tell if he is rich or poor by turning to his ledger. It is the heart that makes a man rich. He is rich according to what he is, not according to what he has.
There are joys which long to be ours. God sends ten thousands truths, which come about us like birds seeking inlet; but we are shut up to them, and so they bring us nothing, but sit and sing awhile upon the roof, and then fly away.
The seeker after truth should be humbler than the dust. The world crushes the dust under its feet, but the seeker after truth should so humble himself that even the dust could crush him. Only then, and not till then, will he have a glimpse of truth.
A man must not only have faith but intellectual faith too. To make a man take up everything and believe it, would be to make him a lunatic.
If one is master of one thing and understands one thing well, one has at the same time, insight into and understanding of many things.
Our greatest fear should not be of failure but of succeeding at things in life that don't really matter.
All you have to do, I tell myself, is keep your mouth shut and look stupid. It shouldn't be that hard.
He who is not actively kind is cruel!
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