Everything is dangerous, my dear fellow. If it wasn't so, life wouldn't be worth living.
Oscar WildeRead
If you want to be a grocer, or a general, or a politician, or a judge, you will invariably become it; that is your punishment. If you never know what you want to be, if you live what some might call the dynamic life but what I will call the artistic life, if each day you are unsure of who you are and what you know you will never become anything, and that is your reward.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the dichotomy between conventional ambitions and a more fluid, artistic approach to life.
Oscar Wilde suggests that having a rigid ambition, such as becoming a grocer or a politician, can lead to a sense of punishment due to the constraints it places on personal growth. In contrast, those who embrace the uncertainty and dynamism of life, who live artistically and remain open to possibilities, find greater fulfillment and reward despite not conforming to societal expectations.
In practice
During a motivational talk on embracing uncertainty in careers.
Everything is dangerous, my dear fellow. If it wasn't so, life wouldn't be worth living.
London is too full of fogs and serious people. Whether the fogs produce the serious people, or whether the serious people produce the fogs, I don't know.
When one has never heard a man's name in the course of one's life, it speaks volumes for him; he must be quite respectable.
Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.
A truth ceases to be true when more than one person believes in it.
His morality is all sympathy, just what morality should be
As long as the reason of man continues fallible, and he is at liberty to exercise it, different opinions will be formed. As long as the connection subsists between his reason and his self-love, his opinions and passions will have a reciprocal influence on each other, and the former will be objects to which the latter attach themselves.
Is it treason to say the truth? A bitter truth, but no less true for that.
Many people despise those who spend their health, strength and money for the salvation of others, and call them mad. And yet it is they who will save many and be saved themselves.
Nothing could add to the horror of hell, except the presence of its creator, God. While I have life, as long as I draw breath, I shall deny with all my strength, and hate with every drop of my blood, this infinite lie.
There never can have been, and never can be, and there never shall be any sin without pride.
No one really knows why they are alive until they know what they'd die for.
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