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I say, when your hair turns gray and your children think they know who you are, do the thing that shakes up who you think you are, even who you had prided yourself on being. When all those around you say they simply don't recognize you any longer, that's the real compliment.
Jane Smiley
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What this quote means

Embrace change and challenge your identity, especially as you age.

This quote by Jane Smiley emphasizes the importance of personal transformation and evolving one's identity throughout life. It suggests that true growth comes when we are willing to shake up our established self-perception and redefine who we are, even if it surprises those around us, serving as a testament to our courage and willingness to embrace change.

Themes

ChangeIdentityPersonal GrowthTransformationAging

In practice

Example use cases

In a motivational talk about embracing life's changes, this quote can inspire listeners to welcome new experiences.

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I was depressed, but that was a side issue. This was more like closing up shop, or, say, having a big garage sale, where you look at everything you've bought in your life, and you remember how much it meant to you, and now you just tag it for a quarter and watch 'em carry it off, and you don't care. That's more like how it was.
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