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The happiness of man is: I will. The happiness of woman is: he wills. 'Behold , just now the world ... entire love. And woman must obey and find a depth for her surface. Surface is the disposition of woman: a mobile, stormy film over shallow water. Man's disposition, however, is deep; his river roars in subterranean caves: woman feels his strength but does not comprehend it.
Friedrich Nietzsche
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What this quote means

The quote explores the different ways men and women experience happiness and love, highlighting a contrast between their dispositions and emotional depths.

In this quote, Nietzsche reflects on the nature of happiness in men and women, suggesting a dichotomy where men find fulfillment in their willpower while women find theirs in their partner's desires. He describes women's emotional experiences as surface-level, often turbulent, while portraying men as having a deeper, more powerful emotional core that women can sense but may not fully understand. This distinction comments on broader themes of gender dynamics and the complexities of love and relationships.

Themes

HappinessGenderRelationshipsLoveEmotionsDepth

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Example use cases

This quote could be used in a discussion about gender roles in modern relationships.

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