We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
Happiness is threatening and misery is safe - safe for the ego. Ego can exist only in misery and through misery. Ego is an island surrounded by hell; happiness is threatening to the ego, to the very existence of the ego. Happiness rises like a sun and the ego disappears, evaporates like a dewdrop on the grass leaf.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Happiness challenges the ego, while misery provides it a sense of security.
In this quote, Rajneesh suggests that the ego thrives in a state of misery because it can define itself in contrast to suffering. Happiness, on the other hand, poses a threat to the ego's existence, as it fosters a sense of unity and dissolution of self-identity, similar to how sunlight evaporates dew. The essence of the quote highlights the conflict between the pursuit of true happiness and the ego's attachment to its own suffering and identity.
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Example use cases
In a motivational speech about overcoming personal challenges, one might refer to this quote to illustrate how embracing happiness can dissolve the ego.
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