If you surrender completely to the moments as they pass, you live more richly those moments.
Anne Morrow LindberghRead
How hard it is to have the beautiful interdependence of marriage and yet be strong in oneself alone.
Interpretation
Marriage requires both unity and independence.
This quote reflects the delicate balance in marriage between the mutual dependency that partners develop and the individual strength that each person must maintain. It emphasizes the challenge of nurturing a loving partnership while also promoting personal autonomy and self-reliance.
In practice
During a marriage seminar, this quote can be used to illustrate the importance of both unity and individuality in relationships.
If you surrender completely to the moments as they pass, you live more richly those moments.
When each partner loves so completely that he has forgotten to ask himself whether or not he is loved in return; when he only knows that he loves and is moving to its music--then, and then only are two people able to dance perfectly in tune to the same rhythm.
It isn't for the moment you are struck that you need courage, but for that long uphill climb back to sanity and faith and security.
Travelers are always discoverers, especially those who travel by air. There are no signposts in the sky to show a man has passed that way before. There are no channels marked. The flier breaks each second into new uncharted seas.
Don't wish me happiness - I don't expect to be happy it's gotten beyond that, somehow. Wish me courage and strength and a sense of humor - I will need them all.
I am most anxious to give my own children enough love and understanding so that they won't grow up with an aching void in them--like you and I and Harold and Martha. That can never be filled, and one goes around all one's life trying, trying to make up for what one didn't get that was one's birthright, asking the wrong people for it.
To say good-bye is to deny separation; it is to say Today we play at going our own ways, but we'll see each other tomorrow. Men invented farewells because they somehow knew themselves to be immortal, even while seeing themselves as contingent and ephemeral.
Basically, men are afraid of women and canβt handle the fact that they came out of the same thing they spend the rest of their lives trying to get back into.
So the opposite of addiction is not sobriety. It is human connection.
The heart of another is a dark forest, always, no matter how close it has been to one's own.
Miscegenation is not an idea that we would have in the Caribbean. It wouldn't come up because anybody could marry anybody, you know. I'm not saying that there aren't prejudices in the Caribbean, but the idea of the word 'miscegenation' is not something that we think of.
Please think of me like an endangered species and just observe me quietly from far away. If you try to talk to me or touch me casually, I may get intimidated and bite you. So please be careful.
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