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To listen is very hard, because it asks of us so much interior stability that we no longer need to prove ourselves by speeches, arguments, statements or declarations. True listeners no longer have an inner need to make their presence known. They are free to receive, welcome, to accept.
Henri Nouwen
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Listening requires deep internal stability and selflessness.

This quote emphasizes the challenge of truly listening to others, suggesting that it demands a level of inner peace and confidence that allows individuals to set aside their own need for validation. To be a true listener means being open and accepting without the desire to dominate conversations or assert one's own viewpoints.

Themes

ListeningCommunicationUnderstandingStabilityAcceptance

In practice

Example use cases

During a team meeting, one could use this quote to encourage colleagues to listen more actively to each other's ideas.

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