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I place a high moral value on the way people behave. I find it repellent to have a lot, and to behave with anything other than courtesy in the old sense of the word - politeness of the heart, a gentleness of the spirit.
Fran Lebowitz
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote emphasizes the importance of moral behavior and genuine kindness in interpersonal interactions.

Fran Lebowitz underscores the significance of courtesy as a reflection of one's moral values. She suggests that true politeness goes beyond mere social niceties; it is a deep-seated gentleness and consideration for others that should guide one's behavior, especially for those with privilege or abundance.

Themes

CourtesyKindnessMoralityBehaviorGentleness

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about leadership qualities, one might invoke this quote to discuss the role of moral integrity in effective leadership.

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