But I despised men who accepted their fate. I shaped mine twenty times and had it broken twenty times in my hands.
For an hour, blended with all she could offer, something noble had been created which had nothing to do with the physical world. And from the turn of his throat, the warmth of his hair, the strong, slender sinews of his hands, something further; which had. Though she combed the earth and searched through the smoke of the galaxies there was no being she wanted but this, who was not and should not be for Philippa Somerville.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects a deep, transcendent connection that surpasses physical attributes, focusing on emotional and spiritual bonds.
In this quote, Dunnett explores the profound nature of love and creation, suggesting that true connection transcends the physical world. The speaker experiences a deep desire for someone who embodies an ideal, highlighting the complexities of love that involve both a longing for the intangible and a recognition of the physical traits that captivate us. Ultimately, it speaks to the fusion of emotions and imagination in the quest for love.
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Example use cases
This quote could be used in a wedding speech to emphasize the depth of love beyond physical appearances.
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I'm tired of living unable to love anyone. I don't have a single friend - not one. And, worst of all, I can't even love myself. Why is that? Why can't I love myself? It's because I can't love anyone else. A person learns how to love himself through the simple acts of loving and being loved by someone else. Do you understand what I am saying? A person who is incapable of loving another cannot properly love himself.
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Yet nothing can to nothing fall, Nor any place be empty quite; Therefore I think my breast hath all Those pieces still, though they be not unite; And now, as broken glasses show A hundred lesser faces, so My rags of heart can like, wish, and adore, But after one such love, can love no more.
Deep within us-no matter who we are-there lives a feeling of wanting to be lovable, of wanting to be the kind of person that others like to be with. And the greatest thing we can do is to let people know that they are loved and capable of loving.