What is remembered is not a deed in stone but a metaphor. Meta = above. Pheren = to carry. That which is carried above the literalness of life. A way of thinking that avoids the problems of gravity. The word won't let me down. The single word that can release me from all that unuttered weight.
What it means to be human is to bring up your children in safety, educate them, keep them healthy, teach them how to care for themselves and others, allow them to develop in their own way among adults who are sane and responsibile, who know the value of the world and not its economic potential. It means art, it means time, it means all the invisibles never counted by the GDP and the census figures. It means knowing that life has an inside as well as an outside. And I think it means love.
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What this quote means
Being human involves nurturing and educating children in a safe environment while prioritizing love and understanding over economic values.
This quote by Jeanette Winterson emphasizes that to truly understand what it means to be human, one must focus on the holistic upbringing of children. This includes providing safety, education, healthcare, and emotional support while fostering their individuality in a nurturing environment. Winterson highlights the importance of recognizing non-material values, such as love and art, which contribute significantly to a child's development and understanding of life.
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This quote could be shared during a parenting workshop to emphasize holistic child development.
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