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Here and there, human nature may be great in times of trial, but generally speaking it is its weakness and not its strength that appears in a sick chamber; it is selfishness and impatience rather than generosity and fortitude, that one hears of. There is so little real friendship in the world! – and unfortunately' (speaking low and tremulously) 'there are so many who forget to think seriously till it is almost too late.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote highlights the weaknesses of human nature, especially in difficult times, and the scarcity of true friendship.
In this quote, Jane Austen observes that during challenging circumstances, such as illness, human nature often reveals its frailties—selfishness and impatience take precedence over generosity and strength. She expresses a lament over the lack of genuine friendship in the world, emphasizing that many people fail to appreciate its importance until they face critical moments in life.
Themes
Human NatureFriendshipSelfishnessTrialStrengthGenerosity
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of friendship during tough times.
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