Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Robert Louis StevensonRead
There is an idea abroad among moral people that they should make their neighbors good. One person I have to make good: Myself. But my duty to my neighbor is much more nearly expressed by saying that I have to make him happy if I may.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of focusing on self-improvement while promoting happiness in others.
Robert Louis Stevenson highlights the notion that while we might feel a moral obligation to improve our neighbors, our primary responsibility lies in bettering ourselves. However, our interaction with others should aim at bringing happiness rather than enforcing moralistic judgments, suggesting that personal happiness can foster positive relationships and communal wellbeing.
In practice
Using this quote in a speech about community service to emphasize the balance between personal growth and contributing to others' happiness.
Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
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Outside of love, no two things are more valued in another person than trust and loyalty.
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Why do you mention my father?' screamed he; 'Why do you mingle a recollection of him with the affairs of today?' Because I am he who saved your father's life when he wished to destroy himself, as you do today-because I am the man who sent the purse to your young sister, and the Paraon to Old Morrel-because I am the Edmond Dantes who nursed you, a child, on my knees.
You can be totally rational with a machine. But if you work with people, sometimes logic often has to take a backseat to understanding.
Labels cloud our vision and distract us from seeing how much we have in common with one another.
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