You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
I'm not putting any of this well. I am not and never have been an intellectual. I am not articulate, and the subjects that I am trying to describe and discuss are beyond my abilities. I am trying, however, the best I can, and will go back over this as carefully as possible when I am finished, and will make changes and corrections whenever I can see a way to make what I'm discussing clearer or more interesting without fabricating anything.
Interpretation
This quote reflects humility in recognizing one's limitations in expressing complex ideas.
David Foster Wallace expresses his struggle with articulating profound concepts, acknowledging his lack of intellectual eloquence. He emphasizes the importance of making an effort to communicate honestly and clearly, demonstrating that while he may not possess the skills of a great thinker or speaker, he is committed to improving his expression and making his ideas more accessible and engaging.
In practice
During a speech about the challenges of effective communication.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
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Invincibility depends on one's self; the enemy's vulnerability on him.
Our memories are our own, and we cannot blame anything or anyone in the past for any pain dwelling there. If we open the door to them or keep hashing over past incidents in our minds, we have only ourselves to blame.
Have the guts to be true to yourself. Nothing more.
He who walks in the middle of the roads gets hit from both sides.
I'd always tried to resist playing the supervirility thing. I liked showing the vulnerability of age.
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