My only grudge against nature was that I could not turn my Lolita inside out and apply voracious lips to her young matrix, her unknown heart, her nacreous liver, the sea-grapes of her lungs, her comely twin kidneys.
Imagine me; I shall not exist if you do not imagine me; try to discern the doe in me, trembling in the forest of my own iniquity; let's even smile a little. After all, there is no harm in smiling.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote reflects the interplay between perception and existence, emphasizing how our existence is tied to the imagination of others.
In this quote, Nabokov invites us to consider the profound link between the act of imagining and the essence of being. He suggests that our identity and reality can depend on how others perceive us, and he highlights the intricacies of human experience, including the struggles with our own flaws and moral dilemmas. The mention of smiling serves as a reminder of the lightness that can exist even amidst personal challenges.
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Example use cases
During a philosophical discussion about the nature of existence, one might quote this to emphasize the importance of perception.
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All quotes →Lolita, light of my life, fire of my loins. My sin, my soul. Lo-lee-ta: the tip of the tongue taking a trip of three steps down the palate to tap, at three, on the teeth. Lo. Lee. Ta.
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