Language is not made to be believed but to be obeyed, and to compel obedience newspapers, news, proceed by redundancy, in that they tell us what we ‘must’ think, retain, expect, etc. language is neither informational nor communicational. It is not the communication of information but something quite different: the transmission of order-words, either from one statement to another or within each statement, insofar as each statement accomplishes an act and the act is accomplished in the statement
To become imperceptible oneself, to have dismantled love in order to become capable of loving. To have dismantled one's self in order finally to be alone and meet the true double at the other end of the line. A clandestine passenger on a motionless voyage. To become like everybody else; but this, precisely, is a becoming only for one who knows how to be nobody, to no longer be anybody. To paint oneself gray on gray.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote explores the concept of self-dissolution in order to genuinely understand and love others.
In this quote, Deleuze reflects on the idea that to truly love and connect with others, one must sometimes dismantle their own identity and ego. By becoming 'imperceptible' and 'nobody', individuals can strip away their personal biases and limitations, enabling a deeper, more authentic connection with others, symbolized by the metaphor of 'gray on gray'. It suggests that true interpersonal relationships require vulnerability and the willingness to transcend one’s self-conception.
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In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be used in a discussion on love and relationships during a seminar on self-awareness.
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