You are 27 or 28 right? It is very tough to live at that age. When nothing is sure. I have sympathy with you.
All imperfections are forced upon the imperfect, so the 'perfect' can live content and oblivious.
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What this quote means
This quote suggests that flaws and imperfections are a consequence of societal constructs that allow those perceived as 'perfect' to remain unaware of their own shortcomings.
In this quote, Haruki Murakami explores the relationship between perfection and imperfection, arguing that what we consider imperfections are often imposed on those who are flawed. This implies that the notion of perfection is a societal construct that allows some individuals to feel superior and oblivious to their own flaws while contrasting with the harsh realities faced by others. The quote challenges the reader to reconsider the definitions of perfection and imperfection, suggesting that one cannot exist without the other, and that the pursuit of perfection may come at the cost of empathy and awareness.
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Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about societal pressures and personal identity.
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Everybody burns out in this world; amateur, pro, it doesn't matter, they all burn out, they all get hurt, the OK guys and the not-OK guys both. That's why everybody takes out a little insurance. I've got some too, here at the bottom of the heap. That way, you manage to survive if you burn out. If you're all by yourself and don't belong anywhere, you go down once, and you're out. Finished.
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Nobody dares to solve the problems-because the solution might contradict your philosophy, and for most people clinging to beliefs is more important than succeeding in the world.
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That is a dream also; only he has remained asleep, while you have awakened; and who knows which of you is the most fortunate?
I mean how do you know what you're going to do till you do it? The answer is, you don't. I think I am, but how do I know? I swear it's a stupid question.