The common idea that success spoils people by making them vain, egotistic and self-complacent is erroneous; on the contrary it makes them, for the most part, humble, tolerant and kind.
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The important thing was to love rather than to be loved.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True fulfillment comes from giving love rather than seeking it.
This quote emphasizes the significance of love as an act of giving rather than merely a feeling one seeks to receive. It suggests that the essence of love lies not in being loved but in the ability and willingness to love others, highlighting the selfless nature of genuine affection.
Themes
LoveSelflessnessAffectionGivingRelationship
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding toast, one might reflect on the importance of selfless love.
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