No man doth think others will be better to him than he is to them.
Benjamin WhichcoteRead
It is impossible for a man to be made happy by putting him in a happy place, unless he be first in a happy state.
Interpretation
True happiness comes from within and is not solely dependent on external circumstances.
This quote underscores the idea that external conditions or environments cannot create genuine happiness unless the individual has a positive internal state. It suggests that happiness is primarily a result of one's mindset and emotional well-being, indicating that true contentment starts from within rather than from the outside world.
In practice
This quote can be used as a motivational reminder during a mental health workshop.
No man doth think others will be better to him than he is to them.
Some things must be good in themselves, else there could be no measure whereby to lay out good and evil.
Believe things, rather than man.
Man is a wonder to himself; he can neither govern nor know himself.
Right and truth are greater than any power, and all power is limited by right.
Conscience without judgment is superstition.
Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.
A glass of good wine is a gracious creature, and reconciles poor mortality to itself and that is what few things can do.
Being happy or unhappy - is that really the most important thing? Knowing the truth would be a different kind of happiness - a more satisfying kind, I think, even if it turned out to be a sad kind.
Happiness and suffering are states of mind, and so their main causes cannot be found outside the mind.
I'd been out to a lot of people since 19. I wish to God it had happened then. I don't think I would have the same career - my ego might not have been satisfied in some areas - but I think I would have been a happier man.
Anything you're good at contributes to happiness.
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